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Don’t hold on to it forever! Read the story below:
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised a glass of water and asked, “How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 ounces to 20 ounces.
The lecturer replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it. If I hold it for a minute, that’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you’ll have to call an ambulance.
“In each case, it’s the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” He continued, “And that’s the way it is with stress management. If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won’t be able to carry on.
“As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we’re refreshed, we can carry on with the burden.
The above story on stress is very interesting. I have been holding on to my disappointments with people for decades. I guess I need to put that glass down now. And pick up new disappointments after a while!
What about your investment stress? Do you keep looking at the stock screens every day?
Just today, (19.07.2010), the stocks opened weak and there’s an update on my feed reader at 9.20 am: Financials Down (link updated to the second story). And just after an hour, another update from the same paper says, Markets turn positive, earning optimism!
But unless you enjoy the above stress, it’s a good idea to set up your finances in a holistic manner and check progress once in a while. Have a glass of water when you are thirsty and then keep it down!
That’s where I think that the 88% solution can work. Ofcourse you need to tweak it to suit your style and situation. But it will surely work for the majority while keeping all the financial stress away.
What do you say?

